Sunday, 13 June 2010

Happiness :)

Everyone wants to be happy, yet know one really knows what is happiness and how to be happy. Everyone has different perspectives for happiness. Happiness might be success for one and for the other it might be being with loved ones. Different people have different views. For me happiness is living every moment of today to the fullest and try to enjoy every second of my present Life.

Though i feel i should enjoy n stay happy every moment, it actually is one of the difficult task in itself. To keep your mind away from worries is very difficult. Worrying about everything is very natural process for us. May be human mind is designed in that way!! I have often heard great people say that being around a child makes you tension free and makes you joyful because a child has no worries and the aura it radiates is blissful. Every small achievements makes a child smile and failures makes him/her try again. A Child is never sad. They also say we must learn these qualities from them. I agree to what they say only when am around my friends kids coz i can simply observe the child and not worry about how to grow the child in a right way.

But I strongly disagree to what these great people say when am around my own child !! Mainly because i land up worrying about his silly failures and small scratches on his body. I worry about feeding him a proper diet, keeping him in good company,keeping him safe, keeping my house clean and finally keeping up my energy as high as theirs :) Ufff too many things to worry at the same time.

The conclusion is one cannot be happy all the time like a child. Simply because the same child grows up and becomes a man who worries. So one can never be Child like!!

The simplest way to be happy is by living in "Present". By not relating happiness to your Past or to your Future. Just be content with whatever you have and whatever situations you are in Today. Never worry about tomorrow to an extant that it sucks the happiness of today. Enjoy every meal you eat and enjoy every single dreams you see in the night. Relax take a Chill pill!!

Kya pata Kal Ho na Ho ??!!

Live Happily and let others live Happily too :)